Jenny on February 4th, 2009 at 11:56 am #
Your last paragraph is so true for me. I feel like I’ve found myself from even BEFORE I had kids. Before my little William arrived I was so wrapped up in my professional career that I neglected my love of writing. Now, staying at home and naptimes permit me to write and I feel more whole because of it.
nicole on February 4th, 2009 at 12:10 pm #
I would choose you to win. :)
I keep telling Husband I want to go to a blogging conference and he keeps laughing at me. I really only want to go because I want to meet all of these lovely ladies I read about. I hope you win and I can live vicariously through you when you are there.
Thank you for your beautiful entry post to Mabel’s Labels contest.
Best of Luck!
Caitlin from Mabel’s Labels
Erin on February 4th, 2009 at 1:03 pm #
Wendy on February 4th, 2009 at 1:13 pm #
Brava!!! Very well written!
I completely understand the blogging being “me” time. That’s what it is for me, too. My husband doesn’t understand it and gets upset that I’m on the computer “all the time”, but I really need that time.
And why did God give you four children, one of them having special needs? Because you’re the perfect mom for them. You’re able to see the humor in so many things that could make someone else crumble. You may as well put on a cape and tights! Amazing mom! :o)
So keep writing and I’ll keep reading. And maybe next week we can get together for a virtual pedicure. ;o)
misty on February 4th, 2009 at 1:20 pm #
this is so great and exactly why I blog… Exactly. Had I never adopted a special needs child, I probably wouldn’t have needed support as much.
me on February 4th, 2009 at 1:37 pm #
What a wonderful post, as usual. I am so glad you have that “out” as I know you, my little social daughter needs it, as any mom would. And it allows those of us who aren’t there on a day to day basis, to feel like we are, thank you!
Wow…what a truly honest and profound post! I am in awe! This is what I call a “Pie and Ice Cream Moment” on my blog. Thanks for that little piece to remind us all that even though we may have never met each other…all of us can be a support to each other based on a common thread! Good Luck with the contest.
Heather on February 4th, 2009 at 2:38 pm #
Oh you SO just won in my book.
You totally rock Darcie. Seriously. Rock.
xoxo
Amen, Sister. Good luck on your entry. I love Such the Spot!!!
Jeff on February 4th, 2009 at 4:23 pm #
Awesome! I think Mabel herself should award you the grand prize!
Jessie on February 4th, 2009 at 5:20 pm #
I think you should win the prize! What an amazing post! It definitely resonates with me. It is hard to find like minded people that live around me. Blogging has become such a life line. Good luck!
Gramps on February 4th, 2009 at 5:32 pm #
Well, of course you should win.
As I’ve said before you are a very good writer. You have a knack of wringing the last tear out of a jerk.
And, as I’ve also said before, I’m an expert!
Why would you NOT win! I have cold chills and I am not even kidding! Beautifully written. I am an empty nester and when you have given your life to your kids and they are gone…believe it or not you can fell alone too. The blog world has meant the same to me. I love this post. Thanks for writing it and so lovely too! :)
Jen on February 4th, 2009 at 7:51 pm #
Two words: Absolutely lovely.
Great Entry– I hope you win! =)
Pack your bags lady…you’re headed to Blogher. As I’ve told you, your writing is just amazing. I’m glad too to have found “been there, done that” support in my online friends. Can I call you my friend if we’ve never met?
Merrie on February 4th, 2009 at 11:49 pm #
That was beautiful, Darcie! Well put, and I’m so glad to know you even better. I’m glad to know you at all!!
Lori on February 5th, 2009 at 12:12 am #
That was a really, really wonderful post. I just love this blogging community because of people like you! I’ve got my fingers crossed for you – and saying a silent prayer that you haven’t had to re-clean the bathroom lately.
Beautiful essay. Perfect! I think you are going to win. :) Fingers crossed for you!
Becky on February 5th, 2009 at 7:09 pm #
I also have a special needs daughter. Some days I am overwhelmed by the constant need. I dear friend told me once, “God doesn’t give this kids to everyone. He has a lot of faith in you”. It sounds like he has a lot of faith in you too. God Bless!
Terri on February 5th, 2009 at 10:52 pm #
LOVE IT! Thank you so much for sharing! Please have a wonderful weekend!
Amy on February 5th, 2009 at 11:06 pm #
Love it. And I miss you too. So you should solve that by coming to NY. And bring everyone with you. xoxo
Karen P on February 7th, 2009 at 1:32 am #
LOVE it!
Nice job, looks like a winner to me.
So I read and responded to this post already, but it has stuck with me and I just wanted to say again how great it is. I can totally picture you scrubbing that toilet. I love your spot. =)
That was beautifully written — and perfectly stated. Fantastic job, Darcie. You’ve got my vote! :)
I can’t say it any better than your sweet hubby…I agree whole-heartedly! You have a way with words that draws us in and keeps us waiting for more.
Jodi on February 12th, 2009 at 1:04 pm #
Hi Darcie – just voted for you :)
Jodi (2009 Moms Panel)
Kim on February 12th, 2009 at 2:23 pm #
You’ve ALWAYS had my vote!
kim
Erin F on February 12th, 2009 at 3:02 pm #
Darcie,
This was so sweet. I’m sorry it took me so long to find it. I often think that it takes a village to raise a mom as well as a child. I’m glad you’re finding your village online.
Becky on February 12th, 2009 at 3:15 pm #
Great post! I think you expressed how a whole lot of us bloggers feel. Maybe I should get my husband to read this so he won’t think I’m a big bloggy loser. :)
Merrie on February 12th, 2009 at 3:24 pm #
I voted! And I’m going to mention you on my blog today to see if I can get you some more votes. Good luck! I think you deserve it!!
What a great site! This is my first time to your blog and it is so cute. Love the design. I agree with your post. Thanks for articulating what so many of us bloggers feel :).
bonggamom on February 12th, 2009 at 5:17 pm #
What a wonderful post. Congratulations on making the final 10 and good luck!
Congratulations on being a finalist!
Tanya on February 12th, 2009 at 6:52 pm #
Congrats on being a finalist! Good luck to to us all :)
Julie on February 12th, 2009 at 8:59 pm #
You are an amazing writer, Darcie! I voted for you and I hope you win!
You are a beautiful writer – I’m going to link you on my blogroll!
Voted for you!! Best of luck!
Francie on February 12th, 2009 at 11:15 pm #
I am Allison’s mom and a special needs teacher and it is a joy to read your blog and how honest and positive you are. My heart is lifted when I read your stories and know that you are the reason God blessed you with your daughter. I hope her teacher knows how wonderful the home she comes from is and that the small problems can be overcome with a happy heart and an understanding that tomorrow is a new day for both you and your child. Thanks and I hope you win- I voted for you and would again if I could vote twice.
Beth Ellis on February 13th, 2009 at 12:08 am #
Hi, Carol Gold sent me your blog… it was really good… comiserate is a perfect word. I have been sick for a couple years and not in community at all. I feel like Facebook was a God-send that gave that back to me… I am meeting ppl I would NEVER have met (like Carol) and reconnecting with ppl I NEVER thought I’d see again, and now I get to read your blogs too. Sweet!
Congratulations on making the finals! This post is very moving.
Nicole on February 13th, 2009 at 8:47 pm #
That is so good, Darcie. You echo the stories of so many of us. Its so interesting to me that motherhood is almost synonymous with loneliness and isolation for so many of us. Thanks for putting it into words so well…(I really really hope you win!)
Carrie on February 13th, 2009 at 10:03 pm #
Thank you so much for this entry & for sharing your thoughts with us! I am voting for your entry right now! :)
Lori on February 13th, 2009 at 11:54 pm #
What a beautifully-written post. I hope you win!!
Nancy on February 14th, 2009 at 5:24 pm #
I just voted for you.
I hope everyone who has posted to you here has also remembered to v-o-t-e for you! Happy Valentine’s Day to you all!
Becca on February 14th, 2009 at 10:50 pm #
I love this — it’s so so true and well written. I hope you win! :-)
Margaret Fries on February 17th, 2009 at 12:50 am #
Wonderfully written Darcie! How perfectly you find the words to describe what your fellow moms are feeling. An honor to vote for ya!
Tracey on February 18th, 2009 at 4:27 pm #
Made me cry. I forwarded it to all my mom friends and all my friends without kids who struggle to understand me sometimes. So well-written. I’ve never popped in here before, but I am so glad I found your spot.
Stacy on February 18th, 2009 at 10:06 pm #
This is very very true. I have found the same things. Beautifully written !!
CHRISTINA on February 22nd, 2009 at 5:05 pm #
HEY GIRLFRIEND, I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN IMPRESSED WITH YOUR ABILITY TO WRITE. THIS ONE…..AS USUAL WAS PERFECT. BEST OF LUCK TO YOU, YOU DESERVE IT.
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